I think forever and ever since I can even walk and talk that I felt like some people were not born with feelings, because if they had any, HOW could they act the way they do? I'm not saying people have to be perfect. I'm not by any means, I messed up, I mess up. I'm human, I am NOT perfect.
The type of people that need labels: I'm talking about the people that say the RUDEST STUFF ever. People that are self centered, only think of themselves all the time, people that feel like the world owes them. Lazy people that completely do not try to get anywheres in life. People that Lie. Fake people, that is the ones that definitely need a red caution sticker with their warning label.
I think if all these types of people would have labels, my life would have been soooooo much easier. But then I ponder, would I be who I am right now if people had labels, then I might not be shaped into the person I am now. The bible says treat others as you want treated. Seems like the simplest rule of all time. WHY NOT DO IT?? I honestly try to do that all the time. I have a huge soft heart. I might not admit I'm wrong right away, but I hate going to bed with things not sitting well.
I try to be a friend to someone that I want back as a friend. I regret sometimes letting people so close to me like the ones that have said no matter what I will always be your extra mommy or my adopted sister or here for you anytime you need someone. I really say that and mean it when I do. I do have a bigger wall up because I have been hurt alot by being so nice to people and they either walk out of my life because they got bigger and better things going on or they ruin my trust I have with them.
You might do a million nice things for a person big and small and the minute you do something not perfect or don't do what they think you should do, they drop you like a hot potato. That is very hurtful. People that gossip about others knowing its a lie or half truth or they just shouldn't have repeated information they were told in confidence. Those kind of people need a extra cautionary label.
I would now like to talk about the people I would give pink labels. That is my favorite color and I would look for those labels. These people are the rainbow after the rainstorm. The ones who put others first. Be honest with who they really are and project that outwards; people do not have to question where they stand with them or if they are telling the truth or if they are a good friend. These people make you laugh when you want to cry. They can be silly with you and not care what people think. They are there for you when it feels like the rest of the world has walked away. Those pink labels are gems. They leave an everlasting footprint in your heart like sand that never had a wave to wash away the footprint that was placed there.
Grateful today for the pink labels in my life. ;)
