Sunday, August 5, 2012

People should come with labels at birth

I was thinking about something that would make my life a lot easier. If people could just come out into the world with warning labels. There is foods that have ingredients, you know EXACTLY what is inside. It is not a surprise what your getting.

I think forever and ever since I can even walk and talk that I felt like some people were not born with feelings, because if they had any, HOW could they act the way they do? I'm not saying people have to be perfect. I'm not by any means, I messed up, I mess up. I'm human, I am NOT perfect.



The type of people that need labels: I'm talking about the people that say the RUDEST STUFF ever. People that are self centered, only think of themselves all the time, people that feel like the world owes them. Lazy people that completely do not try to get anywheres in life. People that Lie. Fake people, that is the ones that definitely need a red caution sticker with their warning label.

I think if all these types of people would have labels, my life would have been soooooo much easier. But then I ponder, would I be who I am right now if people had labels, then I might not be shaped into the person I am now.  The bible says treat others as you want treated. Seems like the simplest rule of all time. WHY NOT DO IT?? I honestly try to do that all the time. I have a huge soft heart. I might not admit I'm wrong right away, but I hate going to bed with things not sitting well.

I try to be a friend to someone that I want back as a friend. I regret sometimes letting people so close to me like the ones that have said no matter what I will always be your extra mommy or my adopted sister or here for you anytime you need someone.  I really say that and mean it when I do. I do have a bigger wall up because I have been hurt alot by being so nice to people and they either walk out of my life because they got bigger and better things going on or they ruin my trust I have with them.

You might do a million nice things for a person big and small and the minute you do something not perfect or don't do what they think you should do, they drop you like a hot potato. That is very hurtful. People that gossip about others knowing its a lie or half truth or they just shouldn't have repeated information they were told in confidence. Those kind of people need a extra cautionary label.

I would now like to talk about the people I would give pink labels. That is my favorite color and I would look for those labels. These people are the rainbow after the rainstorm. The ones who put others first. Be honest with who they really are and project that outwards; people do not have to question where they stand with them or if they are telling the truth or if they are a good friend. These people make you laugh when you want to cry. They can be silly with you and not care what people think. They are there for you when it feels like the rest of the world has walked away. Those pink labels are gems. They leave an everlasting footprint in your heart like sand that never had a wave to wash away the footprint that was placed there.

Grateful today for the pink labels in my life. ;)


BAMBI



4 comments:

  1. ...and we are GRATEFUL for YOU too!! -Brandy Leigh

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  2. Wow!! Amazing and well written. I feel the same way!! I have so many friends and some family members that are not blood members that behave that way all the time towards me even after I have gaven 100%!! I was not born perfect and I make plenty of mistakes but the difference is that I learn from them forgive and move on!! Although opinions aren't ment to matter at times when a person directs their indifferences towards you it kind of hurts.. my husband and I had a set of close friends that for a long time we spent most of our time with then we had a slip up and they seemed to drop us just like you mention a Hot Potato but sometimes it feels like you have the plague the way they act!! It hurt because not once did they come up and ask me my side of the slip up they just made up their minds and got another couple to hang out with!! In the end i chose not to get too close to people or go out of my way to say hi, but what I do choose to do is smile at them as often as I can because that is what makes me ME!!

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  3. Oh Fabulous Bambi...You come up with the GREATEST ideas!!! Labels would be AMAZING!!!!! Me...im thankful to be a Pink!! I know who I am and true to people in my life and true to myself!! Bambi you too would be Pink! Alot of "people" in your life...not so pink! Truly if "people" in your life cant respect you for you or your choices in life or relationships, then you dont need those "people" or black labels in your life!!! They are detrimental on your life and do no good for you! When "people" cant be there for you other then when it convenients there lives....then those "people" need to be black labeled and kicked to the curb! Stay Bambilicious!! (((HUGS)))

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  4. Thank you love. I needed that today.

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